I've seen some stuff over the last few weeks that makes me want to write off women altogether. Just utterly disrespectful things that I've been subjected to for simply having the courage to approach or try to chat with girls. This attitude, this stuck-up conceited bull that women unload on guys makes me absolutely rage, especially since there is no recourse one can take in response generally.
Many young women have, what I would call, a stick up their ass. Really, they think every guy wants them, their stuff doesn't stink, and that every guy is a "creeper".
If you go up to a girl, and heaven forbid you do this during one of their multitude of camera shoots for the weekly photo update for facebook, you will be looked at like you are some kind of pedophile Women have made it the man's job to do all the approaching.
Generally, if men don't approach, men stay single and alone. For many guys, it takes a lot of courage to approach. Therefore, women have no right to be rude to someone who approaches as long as they don't do something out-of-line, simply because they approached.
It shouldn't matter if I'm the 1st guy or the 50th guy. Why be rude to a normal person for taking an interest in you?
That's just arrogant. Why should men be punished for doing their job? It's not right Is true that women do not owe a man anything when approached, but this is not how these interactions are rationalized. It's about manners and courtesy. There's a huge difference between a polite rejection and what the way I and many other men have experienced. Some men's approach, while awkward or inexperienced, in no way warrants the brash response they quite often receive. Women are markedly more picky and narcissistic than they have been in past generations.
By blindly taking responsibility, we blame us for their crude and deplorable behavior, which only exacerbates the problem. Women were a lot less rude in the s. Men were basically the same. When a guy begins to get rejected by women due to his lack of confidence around them, he begins to head along a downward spiral that makes his problems even worse. To make matters worse, a few minutes later, he might see another guy approach the same woman and notice that she is laughing, flirting and touching the new guy and they are getting along beautifully.
The woman was most-likely attracted to the new guy because he triggered her feelings of sexual attraction, whereas the other guy was just being nice and friendly. Success with women is not about having more money, driving a better car or wearing more fashionable clothes or being even nicer than you already are. If you want women to desire you sexually, you have to trigger their feelings of sexual attraction. That is not how the human mating dance works and you need to come to terms with that, otherwise you will continue to experience rejection from women and will likely conclude that they are all stuck up bitches.
It might piss you off that women hate things about single guys, but if you watch this entire video, you will understand why they behave like that and what you can do to get a positive reaction from them from now on…. As you will discover from the video above, if a woman is attractive, pretty much every guy is willing to have sex with her at least once.
Most guys are too easily impressed by attractive women, which is boring for those women. If a woman is attractive, she wants to meet a guy who makes her feel attracted and then makes her feel as though she will only be able to get a chance with him if she plays her cards right.
However, if the woman is attractive, she will eventually get to a point where it is easier for and the guy to just brush him off by acting stuck up or mean. This may piss some guys off, but I hope you can now understand where she is coming from.
While it is true that some women are bitches and enjoy rejecting guys for the fun of it, the majority of women are nice and friendly when a guy approaches them to begin an interaction. Instead, they would rather be nice, friendly, feminine and just see what happens. You will only experience that nice, friendly side of women when you approach with relaxed confidence and immediately begin to trigger their feelings of attraction for you e.
Many women will test your confidence by initially playing a bit hard to get, but if you can remain relaxed, confident and easy-going, they will eventually drop their guard and open up to you. You have to be prepared to stay in there though and not expect that women be gentle and nice with you when you approach. So, make sure that you really do work on building up your confidence to approach women before you head out there trying to meet hot girls…. As you will discover from the video above, you have a lot of direct control over how much or little confidence you feel.
Much of it comes down to what you think about yourself and women. For example: If a guy approaches a group a women already thinking that they are arrogant bitches and will quickly reject him, the women will sense that insecurity in his body language, tone of voice, attitude and conversations style. Women can sense it when a man is insecure and nervous and to avoid wasting their time with a guy like that, they will simply behave in a stuck up and arrogant manner to turn him off and let him know that he is not a compatible match.
Every attractive woman I've known has been very nice, in my experience. I do have one attractive friend who intentionally acts snobby, but she only does it towards me, and she does it because of the stereotype this thread is based around. It's all an act, and she and I both know it. Syntax , May 19, Registered: Mar 10, My observations, from some personal experience: Attractive females come in all shapes, sizes and varieties. However, those who are accepted by the sweaty, greasy masses as being "hot" are often so annoyed by one guy after another trying to score a piece that they become defensive.
Can you blame them? So they set up barriers to protect themselves. Sometimes, they act like someone they aren't. Guys do this too. We all struggle to reach other people while still keeping our defenses up. Girls act like snobs - so do guys. Guys act like total idiots - so do girls. And it is that very acting like idiots that we males do that cause girls to raise their defenses.
It is their being defensive, or "snobbish," if you prefer, that leads us to act like idiots. Therefore, it is an endless, destructive cycle that cannot be broken, except for on a case-by-case basis.
No one is going to be able to change every man in in the world - excpet perhaps by means of a global castration program. No one is going to be able to change every woman in the world - because they won't let us. Having been reasonable thus far, I am reminded of a scene from a movie: "How do you understand women so well? I take a man, and then I take away reason and logic. Registered: Oct 2, Physical beauty's only skin deep, lad.
It's what's on the inside that counts, and I'm not talking about the squicky, gooey bits. Personality is what counts, not physical beauty. QuiGonWill , May 19, Registered: Jun 11, Granted inner beauty is great, and beauty is only skin deep.
But ugly goes all the way to the bone. Go for it bro. Valkor , May 20, Registered: Feb 25, Hey, that's my picture!!!!!
How dare you post it without my permission!!!! DerthNader , May 20, Sorry Valkor, I'm taken.
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